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Sarah Southern's avatar

This is incredibly thorough, Liz. I so appreciate your words, wisdom, and clarity here. Having been part of mostly smaller churches, the lack of theological accountability is often so lacking for men but excessive for women because we're also viewed skeptically for being "more easily deceived." I think you're spot on that a big problem is the male-centric nature of evangelical churches. I wonder if it's also the structure in general, how elders and pastors are more easily trusted and revered for their status as male leaders. I never felt I could converse with our pastors, let alone ask clarifying questions (especially as a woman). And I certainly never felt respected for any wisdom or discernment I might hold myself...

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Lyndsey Medford's avatar

Thanks for this, Liz! I would love to see us talk more about the importance of accountability, but also about how it can be a life-giving, collaborative, generative process. I do think our image of the writer laboring alone to produce a work of genius is a patriarchal myth.

I haven't had a male pastor in a little while, but my last one stopped being my pastor when I experienced some of this. I'd love to see some men hold each other accountable for changing this!

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